Why men leave pregnant women. The title says it all. Why do men leave pregnant women? There are a couple of answers to this question. Some of them you will like. Some you won't. But I would be remiss in my duties if I did not give you my honest opinion. So let's get started.
First of all, the men who leave pregnant women, in my opinion, are the worst. When you listen to their reason as to why they left, they will say everything under the sun to place the blame on the woman. They will say that she trapped me. They will say that she said that she was on the pill. They will even say that the woman told them that she couldn't get pregnant!
All valid excuses, in his book. But, in reality what they are doing is placing the blame on someone else instead of where it belongs, with them! This is a convict's mentality ladies! And if you have laid down with this type of person, that's what you laid down with, a convict! They will blame everything on everybody else except themselves. They will take no personal responsibility for any action that they take! Be careful ladies, there are a lot of these type of guy's out there.
There are a bunch of men out there that only want one thing ladies. But if you listen to the direction that I am going to give you here, then you won't fall victim to these "wolves!" First of all ladies, if the man has a so-called reputation as a "ladies man", he will leave if you get pregnant. All he wanted was what was between your legs, and you gave it to him. So there is no reason for him to stay.
If the man brags about how good he thinks he is in bed, he will leave. Ladies, this type of man is basically TELLING you what he is all about! He is letting you know from the beginning, what he will do. This should raise all types of red flags in your head, but some women will be intrigued. And will give the man a try, just to see how good he really is. Just remember the phrase,"Curiosity killed the cat!!!"
Ladies, you have the most powerful organ on the planet, but some of you refuse to use it to your advantage. If a man cannot wait to be with you, he cannot be with you! Make him wait! You have to remember, you are worth the wait! If he cannot stick around to find out about the REAL you, then he is not worth your time! Point blank!
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Why Men Leave...
In this post I will continue to touch on the subject of why men leave. The reasons behind this are as varied, and you cannot explain it all in one post. But I will try to shed some long needed light on the subject. Not only will you be able to understand why men leave, you will also be able to understand what you can do to keep him and whether or not he is worth being with in the first place!
First of all ladies, just like Steve Harvey says ALL the time, we men are simple creatures. We want to capture it, eat it and talk about the conquest to other men. That's what we do, and you ladies are all part of the conquest. Whether or not the conquest happens is entirely up to you, and in many cases you ladies have made the conquest far too easy!
You make it too easy by giving the man what he wants too early in the relationship. Because early in the relationship all we men really want is the sex. That's it! That's what starts the whole ball rolling. I'm sure that you realize that we didn't start talking to you because we thought that you had a beautiful mind. We are attracted to you on the PHYSICAL first! The mental, emotional and all that other stuff comes later.
But because you ladies have been giving us what we want too early in the relationship, we have had no reason to find out just how wonderful you really are. if you really want a man to stick around and REALLY get to know you, make him wait. That's right I said it! MAKE HIM WAIT! The longer a man waits for something the more he will appreciate it! Also ladies if a man sticks around, this will let you know that his actions are really heartfelt.
Its been said a thousand times and I'm going to say it here. "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!" That's a pretty powerful statement. But it's true. This is the statement that should be going through a woman's mind when she meets that potential beau. If on the first date the man greets her at her home with flowers, then this is the first in many actions that SHE SHOULD EXPECT! I don't mean to keep quoting Steve Harvey but he is right when he said that, " Chivalry is not dead, it's just not expected anymore."
You women have the most powerful body part on the planet and most of you don't know what to do with it. You have to expect a certain kind of treatment from a man or he will treat you any kind of way. And if you let the man know from the beginning that you are going to expect certain things from him then you have put the ball in his park. A man that really and truly wants to be with you FOR REAL, will wait and perform those chivalrous things that you expect. He will also keep doing them, LONG after you guys have been intimate with each other.
If you want a perfect example of what a woman is and does and expects, you have no further to look than your own grandmother's. If your grandmother is still alive, ask her about the whole courting process that took place in her day. This courting process is a lost art. Everything nowadays revolves around DATING. Do you know the difference? Courting was a long involved process where the man and the woman got to know each other over a long period of time. This allowed the women to know whether or not if she wanted to be involved with the man. And vice versa. The man had to do everything that the woman wanted to prove to her that he was worthy.
You know what dating is? Just like it sounds, a date. It's not a long involved process. It's one night out where the man expects sex for the money he spends. There is no respect. No chivalry. But there can be if the women of today demanded it. That's what has to happen ladies. If you guys demanded chivalry nowadays, then there would be a lot less of the nonsense going on today.
There would be a lot less single motherhood. A lot less baby mama drama. There would be more weddings and less child support. More wives and less baby mamas. As you can see ladies, you have the Power, you just have to use it! Some of you ladies might say that, "...the man will leave if I make him wait too long!" you know what i say! Let him leave! If a man really wants to be with you, he will wait for you. no matter how long it takes! Don't be in such a rush to give him what he wants. Make him wait. In the long run, he will appreciate you and you will appreciate him!
First of all ladies, just like Steve Harvey says ALL the time, we men are simple creatures. We want to capture it, eat it and talk about the conquest to other men. That's what we do, and you ladies are all part of the conquest. Whether or not the conquest happens is entirely up to you, and in many cases you ladies have made the conquest far too easy!
You make it too easy by giving the man what he wants too early in the relationship. Because early in the relationship all we men really want is the sex. That's it! That's what starts the whole ball rolling. I'm sure that you realize that we didn't start talking to you because we thought that you had a beautiful mind. We are attracted to you on the PHYSICAL first! The mental, emotional and all that other stuff comes later.
But because you ladies have been giving us what we want too early in the relationship, we have had no reason to find out just how wonderful you really are. if you really want a man to stick around and REALLY get to know you, make him wait. That's right I said it! MAKE HIM WAIT! The longer a man waits for something the more he will appreciate it! Also ladies if a man sticks around, this will let you know that his actions are really heartfelt.
Its been said a thousand times and I'm going to say it here. "ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS!" That's a pretty powerful statement. But it's true. This is the statement that should be going through a woman's mind when she meets that potential beau. If on the first date the man greets her at her home with flowers, then this is the first in many actions that SHE SHOULD EXPECT! I don't mean to keep quoting Steve Harvey but he is right when he said that, " Chivalry is not dead, it's just not expected anymore."
You women have the most powerful body part on the planet and most of you don't know what to do with it. You have to expect a certain kind of treatment from a man or he will treat you any kind of way. And if you let the man know from the beginning that you are going to expect certain things from him then you have put the ball in his park. A man that really and truly wants to be with you FOR REAL, will wait and perform those chivalrous things that you expect. He will also keep doing them, LONG after you guys have been intimate with each other.
If you want a perfect example of what a woman is and does and expects, you have no further to look than your own grandmother's. If your grandmother is still alive, ask her about the whole courting process that took place in her day. This courting process is a lost art. Everything nowadays revolves around DATING. Do you know the difference? Courting was a long involved process where the man and the woman got to know each other over a long period of time. This allowed the women to know whether or not if she wanted to be involved with the man. And vice versa. The man had to do everything that the woman wanted to prove to her that he was worthy.
You know what dating is? Just like it sounds, a date. It's not a long involved process. It's one night out where the man expects sex for the money he spends. There is no respect. No chivalry. But there can be if the women of today demanded it. That's what has to happen ladies. If you guys demanded chivalry nowadays, then there would be a lot less of the nonsense going on today.
There would be a lot less single motherhood. A lot less baby mama drama. There would be more weddings and less child support. More wives and less baby mamas. As you can see ladies, you have the Power, you just have to use it! Some of you ladies might say that, "...the man will leave if I make him wait too long!" you know what i say! Let him leave! If a man really wants to be with you, he will wait for you. no matter how long it takes! Don't be in such a rush to give him what he wants. Make him wait. In the long run, he will appreciate you and you will appreciate him!
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Why Men Leave...
Why Men Leave. Yep, that's the title of of this blog. And at this blog we will try to find you the answers to that question. That's right, I said ANSWERS! Because there can be no ONE answer as to why men leave. It's an open-ended statement that has way too many variables that can lead to answers.
Now I'm no board certified clinical psychologist that can give you the answer gift wrapped with a thesis around it. But what I am is a happily married man of 12 years! And if I don't know anything, I know men. I know what makes a man think and what makes a man do what he does. Just like all of the other men on the planet. We men know each other. So ladies, if you really want to know what is really going on in the mind of a man...you should ask a man!
That is the problem with the female gender. Instead of asking a man about another man. When something goes wrong in your relationship, you ladies run right out and ask a woman what's wrong. And you know the first thing that comes out of your girlfriend's mouth? "He's cheating, girl!" Not every troubled relationship has cheating in it ladies. And the sooner you guys realize that, the better. Hopefully with this blog I will be able to shed some light on why men do the things that we do.
Ladies, do you think that it is a fluke that comedian Steve Harvey has the number one relationship book in the world right now? No, it's not! He's no board certified physician. He's just a man that knows other men. Think about it ladies, and I'll get back to you on the next post with the first of many answers as to why men leave.
Now I'm no board certified clinical psychologist that can give you the answer gift wrapped with a thesis around it. But what I am is a happily married man of 12 years! And if I don't know anything, I know men. I know what makes a man think and what makes a man do what he does. Just like all of the other men on the planet. We men know each other. So ladies, if you really want to know what is really going on in the mind of a man...you should ask a man!
That is the problem with the female gender. Instead of asking a man about another man. When something goes wrong in your relationship, you ladies run right out and ask a woman what's wrong. And you know the first thing that comes out of your girlfriend's mouth? "He's cheating, girl!" Not every troubled relationship has cheating in it ladies. And the sooner you guys realize that, the better. Hopefully with this blog I will be able to shed some light on why men do the things that we do.
Ladies, do you think that it is a fluke that comedian Steve Harvey has the number one relationship book in the world right now? No, it's not! He's no board certified physician. He's just a man that knows other men. Think about it ladies, and I'll get back to you on the next post with the first of many answers as to why men leave.
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